Of all the sex help questions, one of the most common things women seem to want to know is how to give a great blowjob. Why else would so many flock to BJ 101 classes? Or hire sex-educators to demonstrate skills at bachelorette parties?

Women (and men too) want to know how to spice things up with their partner. But not everyone wants to go to a class.

If you’re a wee bit shy of publicly learning the many ways to worship a man’s cock there is a solution. A real solution not involving Dr. Google and the questionable answers you may get.

Getting great head is something people with penises really appreciate.

My friends at Carvaka Adult Toys in England are all about pleasure and providing sex help. They created an infographic to easily and quickly learn about how to improve not only your blowjob technique but also a way in which you can perhaps make it more enjoyable for you as the giver.

The infographic is a free download that you can keep handy and refer to from time to time. For more in depth information you can also visit their website.

I love their #1 commandment of a good blowjob: Be Enthusiastic… even if you’re not feeling it, pretend!

I agree with this. When it comes to blowjobs, enthusiasm trumps technique given half-heartedly. And if you’re not really feelin’ it then fake it ‘til you make it. When you make the effort to be enthusiastic you just might find you start to turn yourself on too! Fun for everyone!

When it comes to blowjobs, enthusiasm trumps technique given half-heartedly. Click To Tweet

There are only 2 things I would add:

  1. If you don’t like to swallow you don’t have to. But instead of getting up to run to the bathroom and squelching the moment, have a towel handy and surreptitiously spit into it wiping your mouth at the same time.
  2. Keep the lines of communication open. Ask him if he likes what you’re doing. Ask if he’d like more or less pressure or speed. Or if he’d like you to pay more or less attention to a specific area.

I’m not affiliated with Carvaka in any way I just happen to like what they’ve put together and wanted to pass it along to help you get the sex help you want. Enjoy!

Live a happy, sexy life!

Dr. Gayle Friend

p.s. If you have questions you want answers to please feel free to contact me. I answer all respectful questions but keep in mind due to time constraints I only provide short answers via email. If you’d like sex help beyond a few sentences you can do so here.

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