I believe in the power of the human spirit and I believe in you!
My conviction that everyone can become a better partner and lover comes from my own experience and witnessing the transformation of my clients. I’m proud of my work that is helping people around the world to feel confident and enjoy playful fun again – or for the first time!
I didn’t experience a lot of love growing up. Instead the priorities were proper behavior, keeping up appearances, and accomplishments. I became starved for love, desperate for acceptance, and I didn’t feel safe to be my true self. I vacillated between depression and anger for the better part of four decades.
On the outside I looked like I had it all together but, on the inside, I was a hot mess which resulted in poor choices and failed relationships. I was naively ignorant of the fact that I didn’t know how to love myself or anyone else well. And in my early years I used sex in a vain attempt to find love and acceptance.
As someone who has been to the edge of despair, and at one point felt that life wasn’t worth living, to being completely in love with myself and my love life, I’m undeniable proof that no matter what your challenges, you can change your life.
It’s not all rainbows and orgasms, of course.
Relationships are messy and complex. That’s why, with my second marriage on the precipice of divorce, I threw myself into personal growth with determination, sweat, and a lot of tears – literally. My husband and I got support, which helped, but it seemed therapy only scratched the surface.
I became a student of many healing modalities that offered faster and deeper results than talk therapy alone. Using my head and following my intuition, I took the best of all worlds and created a unique and successful process that gets to the core of the problems, so they can be healed at their root.
It’s how I discovered and embraced my authenticity, finding genuine strength, joy, and self-love – the true love I now easily give and receive. It’s what my clients use to go from stuck to unstoppable. It’s what saved my marriage, and quite literally my life.
I geek out on science, sexuality and spirituality.
It’s a crazy, cool combination and for as long as I can remember, I’ve had an insatiable curiosity about all three. I have a voracious appetite to understand what makes people tick, what their hurts are, what makes them truly happy, and exactly what they need to be successful in love and thrive in life.
Growing up, I was reprimanded for outside-of-the-box thinking. But I firmly believe in challenging the status quo, especially about love, intimacy, and sex. Myths and misinformation only perpetuate existing problems and the traditional rules of romance don’t apply in today’s world.
These times call for a holistic approach to relationships. Body. Mind. Heart. Spirit. You need to address it all for complete fulfilment within yourself first.
“ What’s so refreshing about Dr. Gayle is her sharp intellect perfectly compliments her down to earth common sense. One can sense she has the wisdom of a woman who has the life experience of living large.”
Intimate connection is our life force.
I keep it real and transparent (it’s the only way) as I share the very best of what I continue to live, love, and learn. I still make mistakes and have times of fear and doubts, but they don’t last long because I now trust who I am. What I bring to you is vast knowledge, intuitive gifts, and wisdom to help you have the confidence to freely be yourself again in love and sex.
You need to intimately connect to yourself so you can intimately connect with another!
This reality is where the mystery of pure love and joy are revealed and can exist daily in your life. People who work with me discover the truth – that a happy love life starts by getting your true self back!
You have the power to change your life!
The work I do and the process I’ve created is not about changing who you are. It’s about finding your own inner empowerment to ditch outdated conditioning, reach your highest level of being, and sink into your deep inner truth.
If I can do it, you can too! I believe in the power we each have within us.
“This is raw and powerful work that is blame free and inspiring. Thank you Dr. Gayle. It feels like magic!”
That’s me. But this is about you!
You were drawn here for a reason and I want you to feel like your happiest self asap!
Don’t leave without signing up for the Relationship Reboot virtual retreat. I poured everything into this to give you the best head start possible. It’s the least I could do. In the retreat, I walk you through a process to end relationship stress and feel peaceful, confident and free!
Thank you for sharing your time here with me. I’m excited for you and the journey you’re on.